astro-news: Life of a Capricorn Woman - Is success worth the sacrifice? -
Among all women, Capricorns are probably the most capable of becoming successful, well-respected women in society. They’re control freaks, whether you like it or not - but that’s exactly how they get to the top of the mountain. It’s apparent that most men find controlling, smart and successful women difficult to approach and almost impossible to please. Women with power and authority find it more difficult to find the right partner due to the following reasons:
1. Our high standards don’t allow us to settle for anything less than perfection.
Capricorn women want to be with someone who understands them both intellectually and emotionally. They want a partner who has an equal or higher intelligence and emotional quotient as their own as they think time in a relationship could be better spent without the need to explain each other. Capricorn women are always in search for knowledge, therefore, their other half must be a resourceful, intelligent man. The ideal partner should be someone who can act like a mentor to her, at the same time, a best friend whom she can vent to, a family member whom she can rely on and a lover whom she can express her love to.2. Successful women can attract those who only want to take advantage of them, and their status in the material world.
When Capricorn women gain things, whether it’s a status, wealth or even love, they tend to guard it with their life. Already naturally suspicious of mankind and their hidden motives, successful Capricorn women may become excessively protective of their material possessions. Accepting others in their lives, particularly men, become a potential threat.3. Men prefer women with a lower socio-economic status over women with high authority.
Due to society’s conventions, most men must be the authority figure in a relationship. Perhaps, not all men aim to have complete control over their other half, but only a minority would not mind having a companion who is considerably, smarter, richer and more successful than them. Successful women ruin the order of how things are meant to be - the tradition of love. But that is beyond their fault.4. Successful women are intimidating.
Most men are just not accustomed to take up the challenge of having a girlfriend or wife who is likely to empower them. Many are afraid of defeat against a female - they find that it may bruise their ego, or they may feel like the positions are switched. It seems that only successful men will have the guts to pursue an equally successful woman. The biggest concern is that many successful men are conceited and self-absorbed. It may be difficult to distinguish the “good man” from the lot. Not all hope is lost as there must be an incredibly rare few who are courageous and sincere.5. Time
Successful women, especially if they’re Capricorns, will want to sustain or increase their success. Most if not all of their time is often dedicated to work. There is no doubt that Capricorns are workaholics - it is logical to them that more success means an increased workload, and if more work equals less time, then there’s no room for romance in that overly packed scheduled.
(Source: confessionsofacapricorn)
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Understanding Your Birth Chart
So you have generated your personal birth chart, what now? When you are first faced with an Astrological Chart you can be somewhat puzzled. Don’t worry; take your time it’s not as complicated as it seems at first glance.
I have created a basic birth chart for Johnny Depp in one of the free natal chart generators available online, to help you understand different parts of the chart.
Sun, Moon and the Planets: Each planet has its own individual character, qualities and energies and they all interact differently with every sign in the zodiac. To understand your chart fully you not only need to understand zodiac signs but also the characteristics of the Planets. Their placement shows drives and energies in your psyche.
The Aspects: These are geometric relationships that the planets have with each other. They will help you understand how they conflict or work together.
Mars for example, represents the forceful, outgoing, aggressive side. Saturn represents the security-seeking, self-disciplined side. While everyone experiences some tension between these two principles, an individual with a Mars-Saturn square (a conflict aspect) in her or his chart experiences this conflict in an exaggerated manner, often over repressing outgoing, aggressive urges and at other times exploding with impulsive action or words.
A trine, on the other hand, represents the easy flow of energy between two points; so a person with a Mars-Saturn trine would find that these two facets of the personality work together easily, bringing patience and discipline (Saturn) to the side of ambitious aggression (Mars), and vice versa.
The Twelve Houses: Check out in which houses your planets/signs are located. Sign traits indicate internal, psychological factors, while house traits indicate external factors, as well as how personality traits manifest themselves in the world.
House Cusps: Theoretical boundary lines between two Houses, similar to the Sign Cusps.
Ascendant: Generally, the Ascendant, the sign on the cusp of the First House, is considered the most important of all the signs on house cusps. It seems, more than any other, to synthesize or summarize our outward reactions. The exact meaning of ascendant is far from easy to define. It is a kind of half-intuitive. Half-empirical way in which we learn to present ourselves to the world. It is the “act” we put on for other people, partly as a result of our sense of our inner potentials, partly through experience of what works. It is not usually a conscious act, though. It is more or less automatic, but we can become aware of it and so modify it to some extent.
Midheaven: It’s the most elevated degree of the zodiac in your chart. It is the cusp of the 10th house; the house of career and success. Depending on the sign it tells you about the kind of life you desire or the kind of person you aspire to be. It describes your ambitions, the way you seek success, and how you view authority.
It must be remembered that for every planet beyond Saturn house position has greater weight than sign position and aspects because Uranus, Neptune and Pluto stay in each sign for so long that they have only a general back-ground effect on the person as far as the sign is concerned. For example Uranus in Leo won’t add much to the “Leo effect” in the chart, but Uranus in the Fifth house will definitely be felt.
(Source: ethereal-mysterium)
The planets and their symbols, placed beside the signs which they rule, with their symbols and the calendar month to which they mainly refer.
ASTROLOGY LESSON 1: BASIC CONCEPTS I
The first step in learning about Astrology is getting an understanding of the meaning of each planet, sign and house. You will have to understand their strength in the chart you are considering, and make a synthesis out of your findings. Its important to memorise keywords instead of learning whole definitions as in the future you will need to pick out what may apply in each particular case.
Besides definitions and keywords you will also need to recognise and use astrological symbols. You will find that as soon as you actually start using the symbols ,you will memorise them automatically without much effort.
The Lights
This term refers to greater and lesser Lights like Sun and Moon. It is important that you learn the interpretations of both carefully as these two are crucial in characterology.
In the figure above you can see Lights and their signs placed at the top, for it is then easy to see that the rest of the planets follow round in the same order, either to the left or to the right. This is, in fact, their order in “Heavens”. From the central Sun, outwards; the Moon, pursuing its path round the Earth. This might not be so obvious if you learn from a list. In three cases, see. Scorpio, Aquarius and Pisces, an extra planet is placed below. These are the three planets which have been discovered in modern times. They aren’t placed in their order from the Sun but besides the signs which they are now thought to rule.
Rulership
This term is used to describe the connection between planet and correspondent sign or house.
Each sign accompanies ,in the main, a calendar month. It does not do so exactly, but begins from between 19th and 24th of the previous month. The date of the sign change is earliest in the winter months, alerting gradually to its latest in the summer months (this applies to Northern Hemisphere!).
The Symbols of the Planets
You can take on that they are all composed of different combinations of three parts,
the circle,
or
the half circle,
the cross.
These parts date from the earliest days of mankind and each has its own meaning:
When a dot is placed inside the circle it signifies the beginning of the emergence of power.
(Source: ethereal-mysterium)
astro-news: Capricorn Ascendant -
There’s a seriousness to Capricorn rising people that is unmistakable. Even when they’re joking around, it’s of the deadpan variety. In fact, plenty of very humorous people have Capricorn Ascendants. It’s all in the timing…and the fact that they don’t giggle before the joke is over.
Capricorn Ascendant people project competence. They simply ooze it. They’re generally very image-conscious people—the clothes they wear and their manner are a big deal to them. They want to appear successful, and they generally succeed!
Often the Ascendant persona is the one that was forced upon us by family conditioning. For example, parents may label their Libra Ascendant child the “nice” one; their Aries Ascendant child the “independent” one; and their Pisces Ascendant child is generally the space cadet of the family. We adopt these roles as familiar ones, and often carry them with us as our defense mechanisms, in some way or another, for the rest of our lives. In the case of Capricorn Ascendants, these were the children who were considered the responsible ones. Sometimes, it was they themselves who looked around them and felt the need to be the structured, dependable, and responsible members of the family. So, often, Capricorn rising people adopted a strong sense of tradition, family, and responsibility at a very young age.
Capricorn rising people are generally big on family, and forever worry about security—for themselves and their dependents. They come across to others as hard-working, competent, and dependable people. What others may not see under that cool, even suave, exterior, is an inner struggle: they often ask themselves, “Am I doing enough?”, “Do I deserve all of this?”, “How can I make things better?” They worry a lot about the future.
If success seemed to have come easy to these folks, it hasn’t. They just made it look that way with a patient, hard-working, driven personality. Some Capricorn rising people practice some form of self-denial. They know how to do away with the frivolous. Still, they’ll spend money on the clothes they really want (the ones with the right labels, that is), and other status symbols. Although they’re rarely showy, their quiet air of success is often a result of conscious effort.
More often than not, Capricorn rising individuals are success stories. Their childhoods may have been difficult, but they slowly but surely turn their lives around. Saturn rules this Ascendant, and this generally means a kind of backwards way of living—as children, they are serious and bear a lot of responsibility; and as they grow up, they age beautifully, learning how to loosen up.
(Source: signsofthezodiac)
Capricorn by Wild-sin
He might be the guy who just landed the big promotion at your office. He might be the guy who just opened up a restaurant in town. Either way, you notice he is going places and all that ambition and energy has made you hungry for him. Your Capricorn male has drive and determination to get where he needs to go and succeed once he gets there. Can you keep up with him?
Capricorn males are patient. They measure success in logical increments that showcase their accomplishments. He is not afraid to work and is not afraid to take his time and make sure it is right. He is a practical man who is down to earth, a no fuss, no muss kind of guy. He is all business and rather direct. He wants what he wants and there is nothing to deter him from getting it, even you. If your ambitions do not match his, he will leave you behind.
All that seriousness can make seducing him difficult. You do indeed have your work cut out for you. You need to approach him like he approaches life, confident, calculating and determined. Capricorns are very private men; they separate and sometimes compartmentalize their lives. Business is business and home is home. No need for grand gestures and public displays of affection with them. Discrete and casual is the name of their game. Discretion helps a Capricorn feel comfortable and protected. They care deeply about their public image and desperately want to protect their feelings. Trust is a big issue with Capricorns; if they share their feelings with you then you are on your way.
Present your emotionally and psychologically stable side. You will not get your foot in the door unless you show them you are on even ground with them. When you flirt, make sure it is something only the two of you hear. Gaining your Capricorn’s interest behind closed doors is a way to insure he remains comfortable and open to your persuasions. When it is time to ask him out, pull him aside and with firm confidence ask. Don’t be surprised if he seems taken aback, they are work-aholics and often times singularly focused. He probably didn’t see you coming.
Once he has accepted your offer the date should be somewhere that is subtle and private yet slightly above your station. Slightly. You want him to see you have goals and ambitions. You want better for yourself and your future. Treat the date as somewhat of a job interview. What can you bring to the table, what can you two accomplish together. Do not over run the conversations with such direction but subtle statements that show you two are on the same page will be more than enough. Capricorn males respond better to knowing looks rather than outward public displays. Touch him causally from time to time if you would like but know that you will get further with smiling eyes.
He wants a mate who is in just as much control as he is. He wants someone with class and poise. If you cannot hold your liquor or control your temper, a Capricorn male may not be the one for you. None the less his conservative nature and sense of tradition may leave you a bit antsy. Do not be surprised when you get a simple kiss good night on your first date or even your fifth one. Do not be surprised that it may take you a while to actually get him into your bed. When it comes to their feelings they feel they have all the time in the world to build trust and adoration. Meanwhile you will have wonderfully romantic dates with a man who took the time to make it right.
Though it might take a while to get there, sex with a Capricorn is not what you think it will be. The seriousness and ambition takes a different turn between the sheets. Privately he is an incurable romantic and an adventurous lover. He is playful in bed and is determined to make sure it is a worthwhile experience. He has his own set of fantasies and won’t be afraid to share them. He might just one day surprise you by wanting you to come by his job for lunch. Though for lunch, he will be hungry for you spread out on his desk in his office. Your cool confident Capricorn man has a few kinks and a new meaning for a “power lunch”.
Remember though, for all the fun in bed and comfort you grow into, he does take his time to fully commit. One day though, your patience will pay off. One day, out of the blue, all their reservations will have simply vanished. Once the reservations are gone and once they confident in their trust in you, I suggest you hold on tight. All that drive and determination that attracted you to them in their professional life will aimed towards you. It may seem over night but you will wonder what happened to the guy you were dating days before. Do not worry though, better version is the one you get to keep.
Once you get to keep your Capricorn, he is yours. And yes, I did say get to keep. If you retained your discipline and continued to grow together in goals and success then you get him as your prize. He is a forever kind of guy once he finally commits so you will never have to worry. He will be the first one to want to work something out and find a solution to any problem together. Just like with everything else in his life, if you are willing to put forth the effort so is he. Continue to work hard and want to rise above your current lot in life. Continue to show him that you will stand with him as he achieves his dreams and he will do so for you. You both will have a lifetime of dreams to enjoy together.
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While you are essentially conservative and of practical mind, you do have an emotional and impulsive streak. There is an inner restlessness in you that can sometimes be at the root of dramas in your life if you examine it closely. You prefer to be self-taught, finding much to enjoy in learning new things through your own studies. Poised, dynamic, and benevolent, you are an intriguing mix of intuition and practicality.
Famous people born today: Cary Grant, Kevin Costner, A. A. Milne, Danny Kaye.
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“I stay true to myself and my style, and I am always pushing myself to be aware of that and be original.
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astro-news: Love and Capricorn -
The perfect partner for a Capricorn is someone with the same high standards, but also someone who can help them lighten up. Capricorns are very sensual and loving, so the perfect partner for a Capricorn would be fellow Earth sign Taurus. Not only do they share their love of physical contact and a sensual nature, they appreciate stability and reliability. They’re going to give them the loving they need and help them unlock that sometimes frozen heart.
Your other fellow Earth sign, Virgo is also a good choice and while there isn’t as much passion and sensuality as you’ll find in a Taurus, a Virgo’s high standards will be almost a perfect match for yours. You’re both looking for the same thing and you’ll find it in each other.
Opposites always attract and if you really want to watch your heart melt and your surefootedness start to shake, go for a Cancerean. Not only is Cancer the ruler of your relationship sector, but as your opposite sign they could really challenge you to drop some of your stuffiness and embrace love in a more impulsive way. While you’re fatally practical and level headed, Cancereans are dreamers and hopeless romantics. You see in them someone to be saved from themselves and someone to protect, cherish and look after. Don’t be fooled by that soft exterior though, for you may really have found your match here. They’ll soften your heart and continually save you from yourself. You couldn’t go far wrong, in choosing this Moon sign for a mate.
A surprise choice for a Capricorn is a Gemini or a Libran. While there are no complementary energies at play, you have a genuine respect and attraction to their mental alertness and in the case of Libra, to their beauty. Don’t dismiss an Aquarian or a Sagittarian either, as neighbouring signs often share some of the same planets.
Above all else, you need a mate that understands commitment and loyalty, but who can also help lighten some of your more rigid ideas when it comes to love. An intelligent mind and a sensual nature will seal the deal.
Capricorn and Aries This couple may get there in the end, but they’re likely to have a shaky start. These two signs just don’t understand each other.
Capricorn and Taurus What this relationship lacks in passion, they’ll make up for in loyalty and commitment. As Earth signs they understand each other, but only if there’s chemistry.
Capricorn and Gemini This couple will be drawn and attracted to each other, but will find it hard to reconcile their different approaches to life. They’ll find it’s worth the effort though.
Capricorn and Cancer Opposites attract to form the foundation for a long term relationship or marriage. Each has found the stable and loving companion they’ve been looking for.
Capricorn and Leo These two have so much to offer that once joined, they’ll make such a dynamic couple that it will take a lot to break things up. Each needs something the other has to offer.
Capricorn and Virgo This couple has so much in common, that even their differences are complementary. Each has found their missing half, with this being one of love’s great matches.
Capricorn and Libra Libra is a social butterfly and Capricorns are unassuming, yet this odd couple have so much to offer each other, if they gave love a chance. Both take love seriously.
Capricorn and Scorpio Two strong personalities come together to form a very sensual and emotional connection. A deep sense of loyalty and genuine love will bind these two.
Capricorn and Sagittarius Easy going Sagittarius may appear to have little in common with serious Capricorn, but they have a lot more in common than they think and a lot to offer each other.
Capricorn and Capricorn This couple will accomplish much together. On their own they are ambitious and driven, but as a couple they can accomplish amazing feats.
Capricorn and Aquarius While Capricorns are far too serious for an Airy Aquarian, they have a lot to offer each other. Love is likely as each sees in the other, what they lack or feel is missing.
Capricorn and Pisces Practical and down to earth Capricorn will fall in love with the gentle Piscean, while the Piscean will see a rock of strength and security. An unlikely match that works.
astro-news: Signs a Capricorn likes you -
Capricorns take work very seriously. They see it as an extension of who they are as individuals. That is why you know that a Capricorn likes you when they engage in a discussion about your work and your goals. Capricorns look for someone with the same career outlook as themselves. If he or she finds your work fascinating, you’re already winning their heart.
Humor
Despite their strong, silent demeanor, Capricorns have a great sense of humor! They are funny and fun loving only when they are comfortable with you. If this part of their personality is shining through it’s because they definitely like you. Join in on the fun and they’ll feel even closer to you. Just make sure you don’t make the mistake of making fun of them. That will kill their interest immediately.
Come on over
If Capricorn asks you to come to their place, consider yourself adored. This may seem like a subtle and expected gesture, but it means much more to a Capricorn. They won’t a man or woman into their private space until they feel connected on an emotional level. If Capricorn has been to your place and has extended the invitation to you, there’s no question they like you.
Most of all, You know a Capricorn likes you because…
You make them laugh, they go out of their way to say hello, they actually talk back when you message them, they share a secret with you, they include you in their plans.
(Source: mindofataurus)